WHO ARE YOU?

You don't like it much when someone puts you down, do you? You don't like negative comments about you, do you?
Now listen. The bad thing people say about you have nothing to do with your life if only you don't care, if only you have no part, whatsoever, in what they say about you.
Now listen again. What you think and say about yourself matters very much compared to what people talk about you. Why? Because people who continuously agrees or say bad things about themselves eventually come to believe what they say. Believing yourself is one thing you do everyday And once you believe yourself, you gradually start acting on your beliefs.
To quit this habit, Read more attentively...
1. Fixing blames on either you or your critics is never important...

2. You should understand the fact that you cannot ignore all criticisms that you or other people make. This may sound opposing to the first clue but you must try to understand them both that's why i laid them both together.
3. don't create the habit of devaluing yourself especially in public. Make it a habit to say nice things about yourself.
4. do not allow any man or woman to reduce you soul to the level of hatred for either yourself or another, i.e don't let someone make you hate yourself or another.
5. i am tired, i am foolish, i am inferior, i have no much value, i can't effect my generation, i have nothing to brag of, and this last one that i so much hate 'i am useless'.
stop saying all those mean and ugly things about yourself. Sometimes you say those words inside of you and next time you repeat it, this happens if you've done something bad to yourself or to a person around you. But you need to accept yourself totally and unconditionally, no-matter the condition you finds yourself.
Now what matters is not much how you got to be the way you are now, but what you do with the person you have become. It is very unfair blaming your parents, the way society has treated you, your physical or mental limitations, or anything else for things you don't like about yourself.
Remember one thing in life. Don't try to please everyone and expect everyone to please you too...fixing the blame is never important...be the first to smile and be the best of your real self by understanding who you are...{created by Manuel clouder}...San cata™